Scott McKain made me stop and think in his insightful post about "deservability."
When the gorgeous Cameron Russell remaked that people shouldn't try to be like her because she did nothing to deserve her good looks, most people thought, "Oh, she's being so modest. Isn't that attractive." And even Scott applauds her for her humility, but he suggests we look a little deeper into this idea of deservability. We might want to rethink how we use it as well.
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